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The guys from our adoption group who have had two failed placements already posted today on Facebook about their son that they brought home from the hospital. After all they've gone through with this process, I can't blame them for not sharing until it really did happen for them. I noticed, too, that they had a different name for him than the one they were using when referring to the first placement that didn't happen. One major reason I didn't actually use the name we have in mind at all when referring to the baby whose birth mom we spoke with on the phone.
Speaking of that birth mom, my friend who is placed with that baby, spoke with the birth mom and let her know that we all know each other and we're able to see the baby on a regular basis at daycare, etc, and that we're cool with the way things turned out. She had been worried about us because she didn't want us to think it was anything we did or said or whatever, but she had been too afraid to call me. So I'm glad my friend was able to reassure her on that point.
No news for us right now. I do have a very busy August at work in preparation for the impending semester, so it would be kind of a pain in the ass to the program if I were to now be out this month. So I'm okay with it not happening in the next few weeks. But then again, my brain works in such a way that as soon as I think something like this, I can't help but also hope that my thinking this will now make it happen. I really am that crazy and superstitious.
In any case, that's two couples from our adoption group down...
Speaking of that birth mom, my friend who is placed with that baby, spoke with the birth mom and let her know that we all know each other and we're able to see the baby on a regular basis at daycare, etc, and that we're cool with the way things turned out. She had been worried about us because she didn't want us to think it was anything we did or said or whatever, but she had been too afraid to call me. So I'm glad my friend was able to reassure her on that point.
No news for us right now. I do have a very busy August at work in preparation for the impending semester, so it would be kind of a pain in the ass to the program if I were to now be out this month. So I'm okay with it not happening in the next few weeks. But then again, my brain works in such a way that as soon as I think something like this, I can't help but also hope that my thinking this will now make it happen. I really am that crazy and superstitious.
In any case, that's two couples from our adoption group down...
